friday, december 24, 1943
dear kitty,
as i''ve written you many times before, moods have a tendency to affect us quite a bit here, and in my case it''s been getting worsetely. "himmelhoch jauchzend, zu tode betru''bt"* [* a famous line from goethe: "on top of the world, or in the depths of despair."] certainly applies to me. i''m "on top of the world" when i think of how fortunate we are andpare myself to other jewish children, and "in the depths of despair" when, for example, mrs. kleimanes by and talks about jopie''s hockey club, canoe trips, school ys and afternoon teas with friends.
i don''t think i''m jealous of jopie, but i long to have a really good time for once and tough so hard it hurts.
we''re stuck in this house like lepers, especially during winter and the christmas and new year''s holidays. actually, i shouldn''t even be writing this, since it makes me seem so ungrateful, but i can''t keep everything to myself, so i''ll repeat what i said at the beginning: "paper is more patient than people."
whenever someonees in from outside, with the wind in their clothes and the cold on their cheeks, i feel like burying my head under the nkets to keep from thinking, "when will we be allowed to breathe fresh air again?" i can''t do that -- on the contrary, i have to hold my head up high and put a bold face on things, but the thoughts keeping anyway. not just once, but over and over.
believe me, if you''ve been shut up for a year and a half, it can get to be too much for you sometimes. but feelings can''t be ignored, no matter how unjust or ungrateful they seem. i long to ride a bike, dance, whistle, look at the world, feel young and know that i''m free, and yet i can''t let it show. just imagine what would happen if all eight of us were to feel sorry for ourselves or walk around with the discontent clearly visible on our faces. where would that get us? i sometimes wonder if anyone will ever understand what i mean, if anyone will ever overlook my ingratitude and not worry about whether or not i''m jewish and merely see me as a teenager badly in need of some good in fun. i don''t know, and i wouldn''t be able to talk about it with anyone, since i''m sure i''d start to cry. crying can bring relief, as long as you don''t cry alone. despite all my theories and efforts, i miss -- every day and every hour of the day -- having a mother who understands me. that''s why with everything i do and write, i imagine the kind of mom i''d like to be to my childrenter on. the kind of mom who doesn''t take everything people say too seriously, but who does take me seriously. i find it difficult to describe what i mean, but the word'' ''mom" says it all. do you know what i''vee up with? in order to give me the feeling of calling my mother something that sounds like "mom," i often call her" momsy." sometimes i shorten it to "moms"; an imperfect "mom." i wish i could honor her by removing the "s." it''s a good thing she doesn''t realize this, since it would only make her unhappy.
well, that''s enough of that. my writing has raised me somewhat from "the depths of despair."
yours, anne
it''s the day after christmas, and i can''t help thinking about pim and the story he told me this timest year. i didn''t understand the meaning of his words then as well as i do now. if only he''d bring it up again, i might be able to show him i understood what he meant!
i think pim told me because he, who knows the "intimate secrets" of so many others, needed to express his own feelings for once; pim never talks about himself, and i don''t think margot has any inkling of what he''s been through. poor pim, he can''t fool me into thinking he''s forgotten that girl. he never will. it''s made him very amodating, since he''s not blind to mother''s faults. i hope i''m going to be a little like him, without having to go through what he has!
anne
dear kitty,
as i''ve written you many times before, moods have a tendency to affect us quite a bit here, and in my case it''s been getting worsetely. "himmelhoch jauchzend, zu tode betru''bt"* [* a famous line from goethe: "on top of the world, or in the depths of despair."] certainly applies to me. i''m "on top of the world" when i think of how fortunate we are andpare myself to other jewish children, and "in the depths of despair" when, for example, mrs. kleimanes by and talks about jopie''s hockey club, canoe trips, school ys and afternoon teas with friends.
i don''t think i''m jealous of jopie, but i long to have a really good time for once and tough so hard it hurts.
we''re stuck in this house like lepers, especially during winter and the christmas and new year''s holidays. actually, i shouldn''t even be writing this, since it makes me seem so ungrateful, but i can''t keep everything to myself, so i''ll repeat what i said at the beginning: "paper is more patient than people."
whenever someonees in from outside, with the wind in their clothes and the cold on their cheeks, i feel like burying my head under the nkets to keep from thinking, "when will we be allowed to breathe fresh air again?" i can''t do that -- on the contrary, i have to hold my head up high and put a bold face on things, but the thoughts keeping anyway. not just once, but over and over.
believe me, if you''ve been shut up for a year and a half, it can get to be too much for you sometimes. but feelings can''t be ignored, no matter how unjust or ungrateful they seem. i long to ride a bike, dance, whistle, look at the world, feel young and know that i''m free, and yet i can''t let it show. just imagine what would happen if all eight of us were to feel sorry for ourselves or walk around with the discontent clearly visible on our faces. where would that get us? i sometimes wonder if anyone will ever understand what i mean, if anyone will ever overlook my ingratitude and not worry about whether or not i''m jewish and merely see me as a teenager badly in need of some good in fun. i don''t know, and i wouldn''t be able to talk about it with anyone, since i''m sure i''d start to cry. crying can bring relief, as long as you don''t cry alone. despite all my theories and efforts, i miss -- every day and every hour of the day -- having a mother who understands me. that''s why with everything i do and write, i imagine the kind of mom i''d like to be to my childrenter on. the kind of mom who doesn''t take everything people say too seriously, but who does take me seriously. i find it difficult to describe what i mean, but the word'' ''mom" says it all. do you know what i''vee up with? in order to give me the feeling of calling my mother something that sounds like "mom," i often call her" momsy." sometimes i shorten it to "moms"; an imperfect "mom." i wish i could honor her by removing the "s." it''s a good thing she doesn''t realize this, since it would only make her unhappy.
well, that''s enough of that. my writing has raised me somewhat from "the depths of despair."
yours, anne
it''s the day after christmas, and i can''t help thinking about pim and the story he told me this timest year. i didn''t understand the meaning of his words then as well as i do now. if only he''d bring it up again, i might be able to show him i understood what he meant!
i think pim told me because he, who knows the "intimate secrets" of so many others, needed to express his own feelings for once; pim never talks about himself, and i don''t think margot has any inkling of what he''s been through. poor pim, he can''t fool me into thinking he''s forgotten that girl. he never will. it''s made him very amodating, since he''s not blind to mother''s faults. i hope i''m going to be a little like him, without having to go through what he has!
anne